Friday, June 24, 2011

Negative confessions..mostly

Friday is confession time at Mamarazzi's blog, so that's what I do.




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Warning: I started these on Thursday, when every little thing was grating on my nerves. Therefore, most of this post is negative and bitchy and irritating, but it is what it is.

Here I go....

I confess...
that when you speak to someone, you don't have to stand a mere three inches from them. I can hear you fine from a foot or two away. Personal space, people. Learn what that is.

I confess...
that it is not necessary to repeat every single thing I say. I know what I just said.

I confess...
it's also not necessary to call me right back after I leave you a message to ask a question I just answered. I told you your vehicle would be done at such and such time. Do you really feel the need to call back two seconds later and tell me you just heard my message and ask if that is correct. Why, yes, you dumbass, why else would I call and tell you that? For shits and giggles? I have better things to do.

I confess...
that it is disgusting and gross when you wear the EXACT same thing for several days in a row. When you are going out in public and going to a place where you had been the day before, and the day before that, please change. I do notice that nasty outfit you have on and that you haven't washed it, because it still has the dirt and creases in it from the day before.

I confess...
that I'm obviously  not cut out to work with people. They irritate me. I realize I come off as bitchy, but I have no patience. I should work on this.

I confess...
that while I like talking about myself like the next person, it is pretty important in friendships to ask about the other person's life. For instance, a line like this, "Hey, Melanie, what's going on in your life?" would work wonders. I can't remember the last time some people asked that. It's always about them and how much everyone loves them, or what they have going on in their life. You don't know what's going on because you don't ask or seem to care. Maybe that's why we don't talk much.....just a thought.

I confess...
that I'm ashamed of this post, but I posted it anyway, because it is what I'm feeling. I'm in a major funk, and I'm not sure how to get out of it. I try positive thinking, but it's just not working.

I confess...
I watched Bon Qui Qui last night to make me feel better when I was on the verge of frustration tears. It worked. :)

I confess...
I'm still singing NKOTBSB songs in my head. Loved it.

9 comments:

  1. Love IT!
    I am with you on the personal space deal...and to top it off, you have to love the touchy people too, the ones that have to get close while talking to you, and put their hand on your shoulder, or grab your hand...love it!

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  2. I agree!!!!!!!!

    It is PERSONAL space for a reason.

    and I do gripe about certain "friends" not ever asking about how you are. Friendships go both ways, or they are supposed to.

    Great post girl!

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  3. The concept of personal space is lost on little boys. I've sort of given up on personal space.
    I think there are times when people look at the caller ID and just call back and don't even listen to the message that was left. My mom does this all the time.

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  4. Personal space?? What are these strange words you speak of? I think it's awesome that you posted this.

    And as far as the friend thing goes, it also applies to sisters, who call everyday and start each conversation out with "Soooo, guess what happened this time?" Ugh. "I'm driving sister, I'll call you back when I get home." Works every time.

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  5. Thank you so much for this ranting, awesome post. I am feeling every single one of these things today, and more, and it feels good to be able to listen to someone else say them too. Yes, I "listened" to you say them!!! Now I'm going to go make some cookie dough and maybe, just maybe, eat the whole damn bowl. :)

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  6. I totally agree with you on the personal space. The worst is when you take a step back and they take a step forward.

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  7. this post made me laugh out loud. literally. loved it.

    omg can i get an amen on the personal space issue. too many of my co-workers just don't get this.

    dont be ashamed of this post! you said stuff that most (maybe just me) of us are too scared to say!

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  8. I love this! It's so ok to have a grumpy post once in a while, in fact it's needed & cathartic.

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  9. get it all out! we've all felt that way at some point or another!

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